SEX · DESIRE · KINK · INTIMACY · EMBODIMENT
Sex. Desire. Relationships. Kink. Pleasure. Energy. Aging. Fantasy. The body you actually live in. The person you are becoming.
I’m Rebel Waters. I study, test, question, play with, and teach tools for sex, intimacy, pleasure, desire, relationships, kink, embodiment, and being human in a body.
I don’t have all the answers. I have questions, practices, experience, and a pretty high tolerance for conversations people usually whisper about.
I’m interested in what turns us on, what shuts us down, what we perform, what we avoid, what we crave, and what happens when we stop pretending our erotic lives are separate from the rest of who we are.
HOW I THINK
I also believe some things are nonsense, which is why I keep asking questions.
Sex is one door into this work. The body is another. Relationships, power, fantasy, nervous systems, hormones, freedom, magic, grief, joy, and pleasure keep opening into one another.
I’m interested in what happens when we stop trying to be good at being human and get more interested in actually knowing ourselves.
ONE-ON-ONE
I’m not here to hand you a perfect version of yourself. We can work with what is actually happening, what you want, what keeps repeating, and what you are curious enough to try next.
Bring me the thing you keep circling. Sex, desire, dating, intimacy, communication, relationship patterns, confidence, boundaries, pleasure, or the question you have not figured out how to ask yet.
Online or in person.
Book coaching ↗For the times when talking is not the whole answer. We use breath, attention, energetic practices, sensation, and body awareness to explore how energy moves through you and where it does not.
Sessions may focus on grounding, root energy, heart opening, chakra balancing, sexual energy, or reconnecting with sensation.
Explore energy work ↗LATELY, I KEEP COMING BACK TO THIS
“I’m building a life around freedom instead of trying to squeeze freedom into whatever tiny space is left over.”
Not a finished philosophy. More like a question I keep living into.
ABOUT ME
I’m Cheri “Rebel” Winslow. I’m a sex educator, somatic intimacy coach, sex doula, facilitator, researcher, creator, and lifelong learner.
I come to this work as a queer Black woman, a mother, a neurodivergent human, a skeptic who believes in magic, and someone who is still very much in her own becoming.
I have spent years studying sexuality, embodiment, relationships, trauma, energy, consent, nervous systems, pleasure, and the strange ways humans try to connect with one another. Before this became my work, I spent more than twenty years in federal service, education, leadership, interviewing, training, and public-facing work.
That mix matters to me. I can care about research and ritual. I can ask what the evidence says and still leave room for mystery. I can teach a tool without pretending it is the answer.
I’m not interested in being the person with all the answers. I’m interested in helping you hear yourself better.
Professional work + credentials →
THE EROTIC
I’m interested in the erotic as the part of us that wakes up. The pull toward what feels vivid, true, delicious, strange, beautiful, risky, creative, or deeply alive.
Sometimes that is sexual. Sometimes it is being understood. Sometimes it is making something, learning something, laughing too hard, changing your mind, or realizing you want a life that fits you better.
IN COMMUNITY
I host workshops, discussions, embodied practices, and gatherings around sex, intimacy, relationships, energy, pleasure, and whatever I am currently obsessed with learning more about.
Some are educational. Some are experiential. Some are mostly an excuse to get interesting humans together and see what happens.
Ask what’s coming upFOR ORGANIZATIONS
Speaking, workshops, facilitation, curriculum development, consulting, research, and professional education for universities, nonprofits, community organizations, conferences, and teams.
For organizations →COLLABORATE
Education, art, sexuality, embodiment, research, technology, community, healing, magic, play. It does not have to fit neatly into one category before we talk.
Start a conversationCONNECT
You do not need to arrive with the perfect language, a five-year plan, or a neat little explanation. Tell me what has your attention.